Those of us on the autistic spectrum have a brain structure that is physically different to other people; we are often described as being “differently wired” in neurological terms. Autism is characterised by a range of issues, the most significant being difficulty with “normal” social interaction; we don’t have the connections in our brains to let us instinctively understand people in the way others do. There are many other ways in which autistic people are affected (e.g. need for routine, sensory issues, etc.), but not every issue affects every person, and it’s important to understand that autistic people are as different from each other as you are different from anyone else.
Autism does not cause people to be dangerous, evil, or criminally minded; in fact for the most part we are predisposed to be gentle and kind. Tony Attwood, probably the world’s leading expert on Asperger’s (a form of autism), describes those with the syndrome as “some of the kindest and most caring people I know.” The word “empathy” when used by psychologists has a very specific medical meaning; so when the medics say we “lack empathy” this is not the same meaning for “empathy” as used in everyday language. Autistic people are often highly empathetic, and many of us work extremely hard to overcome our social difficulties, and conform in a way that makes us socially agreeable to others. Despite this, it is not uncommon for autistic people to suffer lifelong bullying and abuse.
Autism is not a mental illness, and is not caused by bad parenting, vaccines, diet, pesticides, or pollution. It is genetic in origin, meaning that we are born with it, and there is no “cure” (any more than there is a cure for having brown eyes). However, there are many therapies that help with developmental issues in both children and adults, and many autistic adults are able to develop coping strategies to manage the varying challenges of everyday life.
The autistic spectrum is so called, because no two autistic people are the same. There is, however, a broad distinction between what is referred to as high-functioning autism (those us who can “act” normal) and low-functioning autism (those who need day-to-day care), but the line between the two is very blurred, and no form of autism can ever be considered “mild”.
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